Mom started screaming and yelling because I did not reply to her calls on my phone. I was at my GF's house at the moment but I could not reply to the phone as it was still charging. Once mom phoned my GF late in the evening to speak to me. This is true as mom complains about dad to me all the time. In her opinion mom doesn't know her boundaries. I am no super-model but I am not fat either. She noticed that mom sometimes makes fun of my weight in front of my GF. My GF is very outspoken and too honest unfortunately. She thinks my mom is annoying, suffocating and a double-faced liar. After some time my GF noticed the way mom treats me at times. The problem is that my GF and mom were ok with each other during the beginning of our relationship. Since my GF works every Saturday I spend the day with mom as well. I still visit my mother once to twice per week for a couple of hours after work.
This is only temporary as we have bought an apartment together and we are waiting to sign the final documents and get the keys from the previous owners. Her parents and siblings do not complain. Soon I ended up sleeping at her house and gradually I basically started living there. She was not afraid to let me know that she liked me and we started meeting every day if possible. She was very cold and distant and after some time it seemed that we had more of a 'friendship' rather than a relationship going on. We used to meet only during the weekend and we only went out with her group of friends. With my first GF I used to have a lot of spare time at home. After 3 months being single I met my current GF and we've been together for 1 year 8 months. She broke up with me after 1 year 4 months. I only left the house for work and stayed inside with mom even on weekends. I am her only daughter and I had no friends. Basically I used to be very close to mom till I was about 26 years old. I am literally stuck in the middle between my girlfriend (GF) and my mom. I'm crying while typing this out because I don't know what else I can do. Sorry if it is a bit too long but I have no one to talk to and it's quite a long story. I'm new to this forum and this is my first post.
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